Thursday, 6 June 2019

INVESTMENT

Our church here in Kampala recently organised a retreat for married couples from the congregation.

Andrew and I joined this marriage retreat. What a great idea, to get away for 2 nights- to have time to talk about our marriage. Time to hear sound teaching and Biblical advice on what can be helpful to keep building marriages. Time to exhange stories with other couples about the challenges and also the joys of being parents.

Time well spent: a mini-break from the humdrum routine and an investment in our future together.

We had a great time- despite a few misgivings about some of the permanent residents of the venue. These statues seemed less than welcoming, if not intimidating. when we arrived in the dusk of a Friday evening!






One of the challenges we faced when planning to go on this excellent retreat was to find people willing to have our kids for a whole weekend.
When you live far from extended family, it can be tricky to find people who are happy to care for  your children overnight...

 However, we were so grateful to good friends who took Ben and Joel for us. The boys have known these lovely friends for almost 3 years, as they were our neighours both in Kenya and now here in Uganda.  They all had a happy time! Our friends survived the weekend with 2 energetic Parker boys and were so kind to them. Esther went to stay with a school friend and had great fun with her. It is at times like these that we count the blessings of living among such a kind and caring community.

So all in all, we were grateful for this opportunity to invest in our marriage, 15 years and 6 countries after the day we first said, "I do". :-)


Wednesday, 15 May 2019

Colourful Kampala

Colours abound in Kampala!

Often, Kampala's weather accentuates them...

1. Living Rainbow of Colours!

On Friday, Joel's class helped with the Kindergarten "Colour Run". The children became a living rainbow, doused with paint of many colours during their fun obstacle course. The sun came out and the colours shone bright on children's hair, clothes and skin! :-)








2. The Colour of Mud!

On Saturday, it was that time of year again, when Kampala's education centre for refugees held its annual 7km Obstacle Race.

"Refuge and Hope", where Liz volunteers 2 days a week as a teacher, hosts this run every May. (See previous blog posts: May 2017 and 2018: Running for Refugees)

We signed up as a family to run together as one team in the RUNNING FOR LIFE event.
Unfortunately, all the excitement of the colour run the day before caught up with Joel- he ended up with a slight fever on Saturday morning, so he would not run. Andrew volunteered to look after him and also bowed out of the race.

 We woke up early (but not very bright!) at an unnatural 5:45am to prepare for the race. After a snatched breakfast, we drove across town with 3 friends.

Since Andrew and Joel were not running, Ben and I had to find a new team to join. We ended up on a team with Ben's school P.E. teacher. This was a little intimidating for me, as I am not very fit at the moment! However, we had 3 children and 3 ladies on our team, so we ended up being evenly spaced in terms of fitness.

Esther, meanwhile, ran with 2 of her best friends, one of their mums and 2 ladies we know from MAF and EMI (Engineering Ministries International).

Once again, the "Race for Life" was great fun!

Like Joel's colour run, this race was full of colour- but mostly muddy brown rather than rainbow colours!! What helped to enhance the warm chocolate colour of the mud that we slid and ran through was the pouring rain during the booming thunder storms!

The inclement weather did not stop the race. After all, we were running to raise money for and to try and understand a little of the frustrations of being a refugee. Refugees would be forced to run from danger in good or bad weather.

So we continued despite the rain. Actually, this made the race a comfortable temperature to run in!

Here is some proof of our participation and of the lovely colour of the mud!





The Victory Pose for Ben and Liz's team at the finish:

WELL DONE kids!


Ben was keen to greet his pristine younger brother with a warm hug at the end of the race!

Below are our refugee papers and identity passes. These were issued along the way and frequently checked by the "police". The papers needed to be stamped at checkpoints. At times we were sent back along the course to find a checkpoint we had missed before they would allow us to proceed!

It was another memorable experience and tiny glimpse into the world of injustice and powerlessness that too many people face. Let us continue to pray for and reach out to those who face the stark reality...


3. Colours of the Spotlight

Esther recently starred in 2 minor roles in the school's annual musical production, "A Year With Frog and Toad".

After many after-school hours of practice and rehearsals, the students involoved in the production put on a simply MARVELLOUS  Friday and Saturday night show!

In the inky black of Kampala's evening, the stage was wonderfully colourful and the actors/ actresses did a great job on their cleverly created set.

A scene where Esther, as a mole, is seen on the background helping herself to one of toad's cookies...

A scene where Esther is playing "Young Frog"- and even sings a solo, which made us very proud parents! The orchestra was live, so the music was an extra-special bonus of the show.


The fabulous crew at the end of Saturday's performance: WELL DONE, all!!!

Tuesday, 14 May 2019

James Bond is in Kampala!

I was amazed last week to run into a very famous British spy in central Kampala!



Last Wednesday, I was visiting a specialist shop with a friend. It happened that the only place where we could find the needed item was situated in a run-down shopping mall in the chaotic centre of Kampala.

We stepped outside to wait for our Uber taxi - but the teeming streets of Kampala can be overwhelming. We took shelter by the rickety chair where the security guard keeps watch.

It was then that I noticed the number on his boiler suit- a Ugandan James Bond!

He was very happy to oblige me with the photo! :-)

Monday, 29 April 2019

Turning Eight, Easter fun and Ancient Egypt- in Uganda!

So look who is now eight years old....



Joel celebrated with water games in the garden with a group of friends a few days before his birthday.... We are very grateful for Uganda's year-round sunshine to make these kinds of parties possible!



On the actual birthday, we took him fishing with his brother on the shores of beautiful Lake Victoria...

They didn't catch any fish, but they did practise their fishing skills and had a fun time doing so!

In the evening, one of our MAF pilots, who is from India, cooked us the most amazing Indian curry - which we then followed with an ice-cream birthday cake for Joel!

A lovely way to celebrate Joel's 8th birthday! So far, he has celebrated his first two brithdays in Tanzania, his third in Kenya, his fourth and fifth in South Sudan and his sixth, seventh and eighth birthdays in Uganda :-)


EASTER 2019

To celebrate Easter, we hosted a MAF gathering in our home on the Saturday before the Easter weekend.

Esther and Joel got to work early Saturday morning to make an Easter cake:

We had a few special events planned for the kids (and adults who wanted to get involved!). One of these was an Easter Bonnet competition!

I am not afraid to admit that I am not gifted in artistic skills! I have imagination, but I am no artist- so I asked a friend to help me create our entry for the Easter bonnet competition!

 Even with her help, our offering was a little eccentric! Although we could safely host the competition knowing that we had at least made an effort to compete!!


Thankfully the other participants had some beautiful entries! We had a "catwalk" for the competitors...



Winners took away 1st, 2nd and 3rd prizes. The prizes were chocolate bunnies brought over from the Netherlands by a generous giver!   Unsurprisingly we did not get a prize- but we did get given  chocolate by a kind friend for hosting. That was a bonus! :-)

The children also had an Easter egg hunt around the garden, again with mini, chocolate Easter eggs donated by a kind benefactor from the Netherlands.

After the Easter egg hunt, the children used pre-boiled eggs to create pretty patterns, using wax crayons and food dye. Fun for all!





Just to add to the sugar over-dose, the children made the cornflake-crunchie cakes below, with mini Easter eggs from South Africa to decorate!

Personally, the local chocolate tasted bitter to me and the imported South African Easter eggs just aren't as nice as Cadbury's mini-eggs! Maybe I'm just too English? 

However, since our children have never really tasted a "real" English Easter egg, they know no different. They enjoyed every mouthful that they gobbled up!


Ancient Egypt

Just before Easter, Joel's class finished their history unit at school on Ancient Egypt. To mark the end of this topic, Joel's wonderful, creative teacher organised a themed day. On that day, I sent a Mummy to school, instead of my little boy.

His brother and sister were an integral part of the fun, as they put the costume on Joel:




Imagine Joel's delight when we went out to Kampala's Speke Resort with some friends over the Easter weekend and found a real, live camel! 

Who needs to go to Egypt to find a camel, when the camel came to us in Kampala?






And finally...

Over the actual Easter weekend, we met a MAF family who are new to us and have just moved to Kampala from Chad. They came to eat lunch with us- and we had a new fruit for dessert that day:




It was a bizarre, unknown fruit to all of us. But if you can discover its name and origin, feel free to let me know! 

Our children were unafraid to try it (unlike their mother- I'm just getting over a 6-week stomach bug and have no desire to risk strange foods right now!). 

That was almost 2 weeks ago and they have suffered no ill effects, so it seems it is safe- despite its weird appearance! :-)

Still in East Africa!

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