Thursday, 24 January 2019

On Health in a Foreign Land

In late October, I had a nasty experience.

My airways shut down and breathing became laborious. My nose was completely blocked on both sides. Breathing at night-time through my mouth meant that I woke several times, desperately thirsty in the warm Uganda night and gasping for air. A frightening feeling.

This followed a bout of dystenery, when I was forced to my bed for a few days to fight fever and shivers- although proxomity to the loo was a must for frequent visits!

Now here is an admission:  I hate being ill. I'm the world's worst patient. I hate being forced to stop what I want to do. I hate feeling like I'm wasting time in bed during day-light hours! I hate not being able to go where I want when I want. I don't like inconveniecing others to fetch my kids from school.

This means that my family suffer my moaning and complaining when I'm unwell- so a double bout of illness did not reflect the joy I ought to show in this life we have been given! Poor Andrew and kids!

I had two visits to Kampala's doctor's surgery that week. The first for that charming process of giving samples (those of us living in developing countries are very familiar with these kinds of doctor visits!) and then receiving anitbioitics for dysentery. The next visit was a few days later when I felt so afraid about not being able to breathe properly.
On my second visit the doctor could not help and sent me to see the ENT specialist at his clinic in Kampala's International Hospital.
He in turn sent me to the radiologist for a CT scan.

These were the CT scan results:


All those grey spaces are supposed to be clear transparent and show up black, but the report states "complete opacification" of both sides of my nose. In other words, I had very little space to draw in air. Meanwhile, swelling on the right hand side of my nasal passage had started to extend out into my face, giving me a bloated and lopsided look! It was not attractive!

The ENT suggested antibiotics and possible surgery. It sounded rather scary! A sympathetic American friend suggested that her docotor husband could help. He was very helpful- putting me on steroids and anti-biotics, which really reduced the swelling and allowed my nose to return to its usual size for a bit of relief.

However, this was a short term relief. In the meantime, I was advised to start a conversation with MAF and our medical insurance about a longer term plan to help me with this health issue.

It's been a long journey of emails, paperwork and phone calls. It has been somewhat stressful trying to decide on the best course of action. Praying friends and family, their support and love have been a huge comfort as the issue continues.

I have been strongly advised NOT to operate in Kampala, where there are too many horror stories of operations gone wrong and a lack of experience, resources or remedial facilities when things don't go well. This meant that I cannot get treatment in the place where we live.

This is one of the complications of living in a developing country- trying to get access to medical care we feel can actually help to solve the problem, rather than make it worse.

Thankfully, our health insurance agreed to help!

Last week, I visited a recommended ENT doctor in Nairobi- and I was even able to stay overnight with one of my best friends from Dodoma who now lives in Nairobi! I felt so blessed that God put details into place to smooth the way:


  • It was good to be able to see a doctor who inspired me that he knows his field and seems trustworthy in giving sound medical advice. 
  • It was good to be able to stay with my good friend Sarah and her family.

I flew commercially to Nairobi last Thursday morning for the appointment on Thursday afternoon. When I got to the airport at Entebbe, they calmly informed me taht my flight was cancelled! CANCELLED!!

Kenya Airways simply said that they had put me on an afternoon flight, leaving around 1:30. But my actual doctor appointment was meant to be at 1:30! 

ARGH!!! No Kenya Airways flight?? So what should I do? 

I did what any reasonable, calm and collected English woman would do... (??!!). I burst into tears. 

Then I phoned Andrew and cried and cried and shouted all my stress down the phone about what on earth was I to do? When your doctor' appointment has been arrranged at great cost and is in another country, a cancelled flight is a big stress! 

Amazingly, the ground staff took pity on me. Or maybe they just wanted to get rid of this embarrassing middle-aged foreign lady who was making a big fuss in the middle of Departures! They arranged for me to travel on another airline that was leaving for Nairobi in just 15 minutes! 

I just made it to that plane minutes before it took off. And I happily made it to the doctor on time! 

The ENT doctor wants to see me again next week. He will then assess whether my current steroid treatment is helping me and will advise a longer term solution OR he will go ahead with an operation to remove my nasty collection of nasal polyps on Tuesday February 5th (the day after Andrew's birthday).

This means that we are in limbo for another week. I will fly again to Kenya next week, making further arrangements for friends to help out with looking after our kids around Andrew's flying schedule.

If the ENT doctor deems that my polyps are reduced enough to be managed better with steroid sprays and occasional steroid pills and anti-biotics, he will discharge me and I will fly back from Kenya next weekend to care for my family.

If the doctor believes that it would be a better long-term plan to remove the polpys once and for all, to provide a longer-term solution to this ongoing problem, I will make plans to stay in Kenya for another week and a half. To be honest, I kind of hope and pray that the opreeation can be carried out, so that I don't have repeat episodes of October's proportions and can put this matter to rest. 

If I do stay for the operation, I will then be calling on our MAF community and friends to help out with caring for Esther, Ben and Joel. So many kind friends have already offered to be on standby. 

This is a great relief to Andrew and I. Andrew has provisionally booked the time off work to fly on a commercial airline to Kenya to be with me overnight for the operation. Then he will return to work the day after to resume his MAF duties and I will remain and be well looked after by my friend Sarah. Since I cannot fly for at least a month after the operation, I will stay one week in Nairobi and then travel by road for the return journey- the 15 hour road trip.

I will keep you posted with the final decision next week. But in the meantime, can we ask for prayers for the doctor to make a wise decision about which health plan is the most suitable long-term solution? And that Esther, Ben and Joel know God's peace in this whole messy process of health and medical care arrangements from a foreign land?!

Thank you! 
 

Wednesday, 26 December 2018

HAPPY CHRISTMAS 2018!!

I have just spent my 14th Christmas in Africa! And I think this Christmas is the busiest Christmas season I have had in Africa so far...

Packed with events and festivities, Christmas in Kampala has been a special time of celebrating the birth of Jesus and the peace and joy His presence brings.

We started with a Christmas Concert and Carols at Kampala's Namirembe cathedral. I had the wonderful privelege of singing in the choir as part of The Kampala Singers:



Our choir sang on Saturday and Sunday evenings, performing Benjamin Britten's "A Cermemony of Carols" and singing verious pieces of Christmas themed music. The family all came to listen, as did several faithful friends from MAF.

This was the culmination of months of  choir practices on Tuesday evenings, where I have taken a boda (motorbike taxi) to the practices to avoid horrible city traffic (sometimes eating a snack as I ride!!)
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The view from my seat on one of my Tuesday evening boda rides:


Beating the crazy traffic on my boda- horray!! If you look closely you can see cars going up AND down the same lane on this road, causing a complete standstill as they meet bumper to bumper! My driver simply rode his motorbike down the dirt at the side of the road to help me make choir practice on time!!

Between the two concerts, at 6am on Sunday morning, Esther and I got up to go and join the thousands of participants in the annual Kampala MTN marathon. Last year, I ran the 10km race, but this year felt too busy, so Esther and I opted to jog/ walk the 5km option, together with some other friends from MAF:

Fresh-faced before the race:

The crowds as we started off just after 7am:


Coming in to the finish, Esther runs ahead to try to beat her Mum!

I am not so fresh-faced at the end of the race, as we find some of our friends after it is all over!



AT SCHOOL

At school, Joel, Ben and Esther were in separate Christmas concerts, so I had triple fun in attending all 3 concerts for each stage of school (secondary, junior and "elementary"):

JOEL in his concert (singing and playing the drums):



BEN'S concert,  where he was playing the trumpet and singing with the group:

ESTHER in her evening concert, playing the flute in the "band":


AT CHURCH

There was also a lovely Christmas play at our Kampala church, where Esther acted as a shepherd and Joel as a sheep in the background!

CHRISTMAS SHOPPING

Of course, it wouldn't be Kampala without getting stuck in traffic when we went Christmas shopping! Six kids and two mums... in one car for a total of 2 and a half hours last week on a route that normally takes half an hour each way- but with so many kids to keep each other complany, it was (mostly) smiles and fun for almost all the way!

CHRISTMAS CANTATA at Watoto Church

On Sunday morning last week, we headed early to the "Watoto" church in the centre of town to watch their incredible Cjristmas performance.

Special light effects and amazing sound brought a powerful Christmas message of HOPE alive to thousands of us in the audience. The church has a huge capacity and this event is an annual, very popular Christmas tradition in Kampala.

 As a family, we loved every minute! What a lively and energetic Christmas performance, set firmly in modern-day Kampala and ancient Bethlehem, all brought to life on a simple stage by special computer effects and excellent singing and acting. Brilliant!

The message was clear too- only through Jesus and His birth do we find real light and hope in our lives.






CHRISTMAS DAY

This Christmas day, we had the joy of celebrating with friends at our house.

 Five other families joined ours as we did a bring-and-share bar-B-Q lunch. We are so very thankful for the people God has placed around us in our Kampala community and it was fun to get toghter with some of them yesterday. It was such a happy day celebrating the birthday of Jesus together.

Christmas Lunch in Kampala 2018:


The men (and mini-man Joel!)  around the BBQ, keeping an eye on the Christmas dinner meat!

Christmas day charades: Esther's team try to guess her clues:

What on earth is this clue??
It turns out it was "oxen lowing"!!! That's a tough one to act out in silence in charades!!

Ben is pensive while his team tries to guess the clues:


Whatever you have been busy with this Christmas season, we hope you have found peace and had some special moments to enjoy the gift of Christmas and all the life and hope it brings to us.

We would like to wish you all the very best for the rest of this Christmas season and for the new year as we approach 2019.
HAPPY CHRISTMAS!!


And finally....

I had to laugh when I walked past our Nativity scence in our lounge the oher day. One of our children had rearraged the figures so that the angel was flying in on the wings of an aeroplane!! Surely only a MAF kid would think of that??

                                                         
                                                      HAPPY CHRISTMAS from Kampala!!



Thursday, 13 December 2018

SURVIVAL

Ben turned 11 this weekend.

To celebrate, he invited 5 friends, plus his brother, for a SURVIVAL party, with the intrepid Bear Grylls as inspiration!

The boys were given 7 challenges to test their skill, strength and resilience to survive in the African wilds!

1. The First Challenge:

This was an obstacle course set up in the garden, involving old aeroplane tyres (you can tell that Ben's dad is a MAF pilot!), clambering over a ladder suspended on chairs, splashing through a paddling pool (a "swamp" if you use your imagination!), carrying heavy rocks and balancing along a strap-line.

2. Challenge Number 2:







2. Challenge Number 3.
 The party participants found some old sticks and whittled them or tore them to create basic fork-like instruments- which they would be using on their next challenge...


4. Challenge Number 4


Would-be Survivors were presented with some natural- but maybe not so appetising- foods, to test their ability to survive on foods found in the African wild...

Grasshoppers (a very popular local delicacy), snails (ready-cooked), vine leaves and "maggots" (which were in reality tinned shrimps!).
To be fair, the survivors did well, with all them trying the tasty (??) morsels,even if that just meant a tiny nibble!






5. Challenge Number 5

 

6. Challenge Number 6

The target animals were drawn by a good friend (I am no artist!) and placed in the garden. This may be the only way of getting food in the wild, so target practise was part of the survival!




 7. Challenge Number 7

The boys were hungry and it was time to get that fire going and cook some dinner- once they had found it, as parts of it had been hidden all over the garden!


After the challenges were complete and the food was cooked, it was time for the worm-infested mud-cake, decorated by Esther:




As night fell, the boys moved into the "cave" to watch a couple of Bear Grylls survival episodes, before moving to their tent outdoors for sleeping!

The boys finally settled down to sleep by 11pm and all was quiet in the garden.... until the African rain POUNDED down from drk skies around 2am!

By 5am, a load of muddy, damp boys emerged from their tent and started collecting damp firewaood to rekindle their fire! 

By 7am, the fire was burning well and bacon, eggs, beans and sausages were cooked by enthusiastic and peckish survivors! This was their final activity before parents came to collect their filthy, tired, but happy boys-  who had proved their ability to manage in the African bush!

What a way to celebrate an 11th birthday- but oh-so-appropriate for our African-born Ben!!


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